Marriage | Forgiveness enabled Kathi and Hal Higley to heal from trauma and an affair (Third in a series on long marriages)
by Charissa Koh
Posted 9/12/19, 04:39 pm
In 1986, Hal Higley found a letter addressed to his wife in the mail. When he asked Kathi, she said it was from a friend in Louisiana, but their strained marriage had left him suspicious. Later, as they put their three kids in the car to go to dinner, Hal slipped inside to search for the letter and found it hidden in a drawer. When he read it, he said, his “whole world fell apart.” The letter was from another man.